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We live in the time of excess; where trends like fast fashion, doom scrolling, binge watching, and online food deliveries have become the norm. With unlimited access to consumerism, screentime, and consumption, it becomes ever more difficult to instill the value of moderation in children. Notwithstanding, teaching children moderation is important for their development and helps them make balanced choices as they grow. Here are some practical tips and “parent hacks” to help instill this incredibly important value:
1. Lead by Example
• Model Behavior: Show moderation in your own actions, whether it’s in eating, screentime, or spending money. Kids are likely to mimic what they see.
• Talk About It: Share your thought process when you choose moderation. For example, explain why you’re having one cookie instead of two. Kids learn best when things aren’t taught in a vacuum, so giving context and examples is far more effective.
2. Set Clear Limits
• Consistent Rules: Establish boundaries around activities like screentime, snacks, or playtime. Consistency helps children understand and expect limits.
• Use a Timer: For activities that can easily consume too much time (e.g., video games), set a timer. When it goes off, it’s time to switch to another activity. Timers can also help alleviate anxiety around not getting time for beloved activities, because kids can come to rely on the set-time they have each day or week for a given past time.
3. Teach the Concept of Balance
• Balance Wheel: Create a simple chart or wheel showing different activities (e.g., homework, play, chores). Encourage your child to balance their time across these activities daily.
• Daily Check-ins: At the end of the day, talk about what they did and whether they feel they had a balanced day.
4. Practice Delayed Gratification
• The “Wait a Minute” Rule: Encourage your child to wait a minute before getting something they want. Gradually increase the waiting time as they get better at it.
• Reward Delays: If they successfully wait or save up for something, reward them with praise or a small treat.
5. Make Moderation Fun
• Moderation Challenges: Turn moderation into a game. For example, challenge them to use only a certain number of blocks to build something or to find a balance in different food groups at dinner.
• Sticker Charts: Use stickers to reward balanced behavior. When they reach a certain number of stickers, they can choose a fun activity or reward.
6. Involve Them in Decision-Making
• Choices Within Limits: Give them choices, but within set limits. For instance, let them choose between two snacks, both of which are healthy.
• Discuss Trade-Offs: Help them understand that choosing one thing might mean giving up another. This encourages thoughtful decision-making.
7. Encourage Mindful Consumption
• Mindful Eating: Teach them to eat slowly and savor their food. Ask them how they feel after eating certain amounts.
• Screen-Free Zones: Create areas or times in the house where screens aren’t allowed, encouraging them to engage in other activities.
8. Teach Financial Moderation
• Allowance Management: Give them a small allowance and help them budget it. Teach them to save, spend, and donate a portion of it.
• Needs vs. Wants: Discuss the difference between needs and wants, and encourage them to prioritize.
9. Promote Gratitude
• Gratitude Journals: Encourage them to write or draw things for which they are grateful. This helps shift focus from excess to appreciating what they have.
• Thankful Talks: Have regular conversations about things they appreciate, fostering contentment with moderation.
10. Create Teachable Moments
• Real-Life Scenarios: Use everyday situations to discuss moderation. For example, if they want to binge-watch a show, talk about the benefits of watching just one episode.
• Books and Stories: Read stories that highlight moderation and discuss the characters’ choices with your child.
In this world of superabundance, learning moderation is more important than ever. Plato described it as the harmony between reason, spirit, and desire. With these hacks, parents can help their children build a foundation of moderation that they can carry into adulthood.
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